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Andy Johns's avatar

Beautiful essay, Bowen. As a 39 year old man without children, I contemplate this subject a lot. You've given me a lot to think about. Please continue your excellent writing.

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j.e. moyer, LPC's avatar

I’ve had such a different experience around masculinity and Patriarchy. I’m sure it has to do with my Dad being 30 years older than Mom, the violence I witnessed by my mother toward him. The levels of complexity are staggering. I only more recently discovered that Dad wasn’t my biological father. I’m over 60 now and never had any children. My sister and two brothers never had any kids either. I’m grateful not to have had any kids. Ironically, as a psychotherapist I focus on helping children. I married late and grateful to have a loving partner in life.

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